Monday, March 26, 2012

Weekend Morning at the Toy Store (Week 43 of Fireflies at Dusk: A 52-Week Project)


One of the first things I did to get started on the Fireflies at Dusk project last summer was to go to a toy store.  I was wanting to find inspiration and ideas for the project, so off we went to a large toy store.  At that point, my daughter had developed quite an affinity for Hello Kitty, and at the store she spotted a stuffed one with an extremely large head.  This caused a slightly embarrassing situation when she wanted it so much she put it in a head lock and dragged all the way down the aisle.  There was enormous drama (aka standard two-year-old behavior) and the intermittent sounds of her yelling along with the edges of the cardboard box squeaking as it was scraping across the shiny floor. At the same time I could also hear another kid having a similar episode a few aisles down about some other toy.  I was thinking to myself how funny it is that so many kids respond with such emotion over silly toys until I turned the corner and saw it and had a small episode of my own....

There it was in all its glory...the 1979 vintage style Snoopy snow cone maker.  I became overwhelmed with emotion.  I had no idea they were doing a re-make of this, nor did I know I would be holding back the tears as this unexpected memory popped out right in front of me.  The icy sweet taste was almost again in my mouth and the sound of the shaved ice falling softly into the little paper cup was again almost filling my ears.







I can't think of a place - maybe other than a museum - that has as much fun and creative inspiration  as a toy store.  While big box toy stores can be fun (or in our case emotional), what I like most of all are smaller, local toy stores.  I like going there even if just to window shop and get creative ideas, and I think simple toys are often the most interesting.   My daughter picked out this small music box and I decided to let her get it.  Normally music boxes are hidden inside something - but this one is cool because you can see exactly how it works.  There are tiny metal pins - all different lengths for a different tone.  The crank turns the cylinder which is encrypted with these tiny bits - like a punched card -  to cause each of the pins to play the song.  Of all the toys we play with as kids, the pop-culture toys undoubtedly reside in the archives of our memory.  But the classic, timeless ones do, too.



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(c) 2012 photography and writing by Chloe - all rights reserved



Sunday, March 18, 2012

The Flannel Graph (Week 42 of Fireflies at Dusk: A 52-Week Project)



One symbol of Gen X's growing up years often gets forgotten...the flannel graph.  Kids who went to Sunday school/vacation Bible school in the 70s have memories of watching their teacher tell stories on one of these.  There would be a large upright board covered in flannel either in a solid color or with some sort of outdoor scene, and the characters, also made from flannel, could be placed on and moved around the board as the story is told.   My slightly-younger-than-me Gen X husband speaks English as a second language (but also proofreads my blog entries because he paid more attention in grammar class than I did), remembers learning from a flannel graph in a public school ESL class in the early 80s.


Flannel graphs were super popular during the time of Gen X's childhood.  These days, now that there are all kinds of digital ways of teaching or telling a story, you might only see one occasionally.  Hoping to pass on this important symbol to the younger generation, this week I made two flannel graphs -- one for my daughter and one for my Godson.

I love hearing stories.
I love telling stories.

Here is how a flannel graph works for the uninitiated...a story might go something like this:



The sun is high in the sky and a sailboat takes off across the water.  Some birds head from dry land to the water.



The story goes on...it becomes a bit more cloudy, the sailboat heads further out into the water, the sun goes a little lower in the sky.  (Maybe some flannel figures of people would come walking out in the foreground and have a conversation here.)




 



Here the clouds have drifted away, the sun is setting, and the sailboat to make its way back to the shore.  The birds fly back to their nests as night comes. The story closes.


I remember going to a church pre-school where the teacher would tell flannel graph stories.  I immediately feel peaceful when I think of the way she would speak to us so gently and with so much kindness. The flannel pieces would attach to and come off the board so softly and easily as the story would go on.  I loved watching Jesus and the apostles walking around on the flannel Holy Land landscape.  It's nice when something simple can make you feel so content.  I so distinctly remember being in the sanctuary with other little Gen Xers as we sat on the wooden pews,  amazed at stories of miracles or captivated by the conversations of the people.  I always wanted to have the kind of voice that teacher did - a voice that tells stories in such a way that those who listen feel peaceful and loved.  Of all the voices we hear in our lives - those making demands, those criticizing us, those giving us unsolicited advice...I sometimes long to just sit, undistracted, in a sacred space and let someone tell me a story.




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(c) 2012 photography and writing by Chloe Koffas - all rights reserved



Wednesday, March 14, 2012

St. Patrick's Day (Week 41 of Fireflies at Dusk: A 52-Week Project)



This week started off cold and blustery which meant it was a good time to stay in and stay warm.  We got ready for the upcoming St. Patrick's Day holiday by talking about St. Patrick and we made cookies in honor of his amazing life.    




We wanted to make three-leaf clover shaped cookies but that didn't quite work out so we just put green sprinkles on top to make them look clover-ish.  




 
My daughter helped me do the baking, which actually means she ate some of the dough, then put a few shakes of sprinkles on and then became distracted by eating the sprinkles off the dough.  Maybe we can make this a new tradition for St. Patrick's Day every year.... 
 






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Is it possible to make a gluten-free/sugar-free/vegan cookie that actually tastes good? The answer is yes. These turned out pretty decent - for being gluten-free/sugar-free and vegan, that is.

I gathered up some ideas online and then put together my own recipe to make it as healthy as possible....

Recipe for Chloe's GF/sugar-free/vegan cookies - from 3/14/2011 entry: St. Patrick's Day

1 cup white rice flour
1 cup tapioca flour
2 tsp. gluten-free/aluminum-free baking powder
1/2 tsp. xanthan gum
1/2 tsp. sea salt
1 cup stevia granules (e.g., Truvia brand natural sweetener)
3/4 cup vegan spread butter substitute (ideally one without hydrogentated oil)
1 tsp. organic vanilla extract
1/2 cup coconut milk
Some stevia granules to do the sprinkles on top and organic food coloring to give it color

Mix dry ingredients in one bowl and wet ingredients in the other, then stir all ingredients together. Form into balls and leave room on the sides. This amount should fill up two sheets. I baked the dough for 7 minutes, turned the sheet around and cooked it for 7 more minutes and then let the cookies sit on the sheet to cool and set for another 10 minutes.

Not bad with a hot cup of tea....






Thursday, March 8, 2012

The Missing Pieces (Week 40 of Fireflies at Dusk: A 52-Week Project)


There were many situations in my life that meant I had to leave things behind. One of those was in college when I was renting a cheap space in a century-old building and the ceiling collapsed.  There was a huge mess and almost nothing was salvageable.  Being a poor college student, I could barely afford dinner, let alone renter's insurance, so I lost most of what I owned including many mementos from my life.  It did make it easier to move though, since I could fit all my possessions in my car.  Being a Gen Xer means having at least one, if not several stories like this - leaving things behind, traveling to a new destination and starting again.

Many Gen Xers remember having to leave behind toys, books, or other mementos from their childhood that were close to their heart - often times before they were ready to.  Gen Xers are a Nomadic Generation.*  All that moving around has required that you leave things behind.  While leaving your toys behind in some cardboard box meant you would never see them again in your younger years, all you have to do these days is go online, find it, and have it shipped to your doorstep.  I hold things loosely, and I realize it isn't so much about that remnant from my past as it is about the feeling I get from being around it.   Having to constantly let go of things teaches you, even if just for practical reasons, to be unattached to material things, but sometimes it's nice to get something back.


The first book I remember the teacher reading to us in kindergarten. I recently bought this
used online to read to my tot, so now it is a piece of her childhood, too.  Corduroy the bear goes
looking for his missing button in the story just as many of us go looking for the missing pieces of our lives.  


I'm a person who is big on the concept of redemption.  If you want to bring back something into your life that you had to leave behind, one thing that can be redeeming is to buy it used. Other than saving money, I like feeling like I can own something that someone else in my generation once owned, that I was not alone in what I experienced when it was part of my life, and that so many others were going through the exact same thing at the exact same time.

Time closes behind us with every passing minute, we cannot relive the exact same moments that we once had - in fact, many things we would never want to relive.  While it seemed like parts of your childhood had to be left behind, there is a way to get it back.  It can be about making homemade play dough to inhale the smell and bring back a flood of memories, it can be about eating that comfort food that warmed you up when the weather was cold.  It can be about buying something you once enjoyed that is second-hand and enjoying it even more because someone else in your same generation owned it once too.  That is what the Fireflies at Dusk project is about...to get the good parts back of my Gen X childhood so that I can help others do the same.

We were, and are, all in this together.

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*William Stauss and Neil Howe, the creators of Generational Theory, have identified generational archetypes that have cycled through history, and have written about how Generation X falls into the Nomadic personality type.  Part of this personality type includes a sort of unsettled, roaming existence.  Rare Gen Xers who lived in the same place through their growing-up years experienced this at least existentially, and most Gen Xers experienced this in the constant change of their geographic location as well.

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Copyright for Cordoroy: Published by Penguin Group, written by Don Freeman, 1968/Writing and Photography by Chloe Koffas- all rights reserved